{"id":27324,"date":"2022-08-16T18:18:14","date_gmt":"2022-08-17T01:18:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.connexionscoaching.com\/blog\/?page_id=27324"},"modified":"2022-09-01T01:41:21","modified_gmt":"2022-09-01T08:41:21","slug":"the-four-gateways","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.connexionscoaching.com\/blog\/the-four-gateways\/","title":{"rendered":"The Four Gateways"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.18.0&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.18.0&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;25px|25px|25px|25px|false|false&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.18.0&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_text module_class=&#8221;cx_page_title&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.18.0&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; text_text_color=&#8221;#000000&#8243; background_color=&#8221;#d9c1aa&#8221; module_alignment=&#8221;center&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;25px|0px|0px|0px|false|false&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;25px|25px|25px|25px|false|false&#8221; border_radii=&#8221;on|5px|5px|5px|5px&#8221; border_width_all=&#8221;1px&#8221; border_color_all=&#8221;#3A3A3A&#8221; locked=&#8221;off&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; max_width__hover_enabled=&#8221;on|hover&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h1 style=\"text-align: center;\">About The Four Gateways<\/h1>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=&#8221;1_2,1_2&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.18.0&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;0px|25px|0px|25px|false|false&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_2&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.18.0&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_text admin_label=&#8221;WU&#8221; module_class=&#8221;cx_content_box&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.18.0&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; background_color=&#8221;#F2E1B5&#8243; custom_margin=&#8221;0px|0px|25px|0px|false|false&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;25px|25px|25px|25px|false|false&#8221; hover_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243; border_radii=&#8221;on|5px|5px|5px|5px&#8221; border_width_all=&#8221;1px&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; sticky_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243;]<\/p>\n<div itemscope itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/Thing\" id=\"gv-item-reviewed\" itemprop=\"itemReviewed\">\n<div class=\"gv-diy-container gv-diy-multiple-container gv-container gv-container-22326\">\n\n\t\n\t\t\t<div id=\"gv_diy_6692\" class=\"gv-diy-view\">\n\n\t\t\t\t<h1 class=\"gv-field-118-1\">Waking Up<\/h1><p class=\"gv-field-118-3\"><p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/www.connexionscoaching.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/Icons\/Waking-Up-64x64-1-1.png\" \/>Waking up begins with the realization that you have been asleep. Whether you are waking up from a night\u2019s slumber or beginning a spiritual journey, when you open your eyes, you see the world differently than when you are asleep.<\/p>\n<p>The fundamental goal of this stage is to know yourself better. This will involve taking various assessments that help both you and your coach understand how various types of situations will impact you.<\/p>\n<p>This stage includes learning several other practices that are described below.<\/p>\n<\/p><b><div class=\"gv-field-118-5\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.connexionscoaching.com\/blog\/waking-up\/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Click to learn more<\/a><\/div><\/b>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\n\t\t\n<\/div>\n\n\t\t<style>\n\t\t\t.fancybox-container {\n\t\t\t\tz-index: 100000; \/** Divi is 99999 *\/\n\t\t\t}\n\n\t\t\t.admin-bar .fancybox-container {\n\t\t\t\tmargin-top: 32px;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t<\/style>\n\t\t<script>\n\t\t\tif ( window.Fancybox ){\n\t\t\t\tFancybox.bind(\".gravityview-fancybox\", {\"animationEffect\":\"fade\",\"toolbar\":true,\"closeExisting\":true,\"arrows\":true,\"buttons\":[\"thumbs\",\"close\"],\"i18n\":{\"en\":{\"CLOSE\":\"Close\",\"NEXT\":\"Next\",\"PREV\":\"Previous\",\"ERROR\":\"The requested content cannot be loaded. 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Standing up involves building the skills to manage your life amore effectively. You will learn how to notice the reactive patterns in our life and consciously choose more appropriate responses. You will learn how to get off the Drama Triangle and choose healthier behaviors.<\/p>\n<p>The <strong>Standing U<\/strong>p stage also involves getting a clear sense of the purpose of your life. Why are you here? What activates you and lights your fire? What are your personal values... the principles that are so important to you that you won't compromise them? 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Some of these messages were supportive and helped you develop a healthy ego; but based on the circumstances of your childhood, you may have interpreted many of these messages as limiting beliefs such as \"<em>I am not good enough<\/em>\" or \"<em>I am not loveable<\/em>\"..\u00a0 These self-limiting beliefs may still be present in your subconscious. In the <strong>Waking Up<\/strong> stage, you learned to identify these limiting beliefs. In this stage, you will learn how to reprogram them into positive and life-affirming beliefs .<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cleaning Up<\/strong> includes identifying at the patterns in your life that may be holding you back.\u00a0 If you tend to be defensive or reactive, how is that impacting your connections with others? 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